Our First Swinger Experience – 5 Secrets Shared By A Real Couple

Their first swingers experience

Suzy and Marc are regular WifeBucket submitters who are active swingers. They’ve tried wife-swap, swinger clubs, neighborhood orgies, and everything else where the motto is “the more – the merrier” 😉

I asked them about their first swinger experience more than 3 years ago and they were glad to share their experience.

1. Marc – We discovered out fascination all of a sudden.

We’re in our late 20s and have been married for more than 5 years (and know each other for more than 15 years). Our sex life has always been great. Suzy is very sexual and open-minded in the bedroom but a bit shy and not so uninhibited outside of it. I’ve always wished that would be less reserved and we would do things like a quickie in the restaurants bathroom or stuff like that – you know what I mean. Alas, I knew that Suzy is not into such things and my hopes for something kinky were not high at all.

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t expect her to do anything she doesn’t want to do just to make me happy. It’s just a silly fantasy which I’ve always kept on and on – that we would experience sex outside of our bedroom.

One day, we were watching a movie on Netflix (the famous Netflix & chill, I guess 😉 ) and there was a scene where 2 couples were having sex together in a hotel room. I didn’t think much of it but then I noticed something extremely interesting – Suzy was watching intensely, she has blushed a little, and everything else which radiates the “I’m so fucking horny now” vibe. I stopped the movie right then and there we had wild sex on the sofa. Yes, now I was certain that my shy and reserved wife has a kinky fantasy – swinging!

It’s not really something I’ve given serious thought about but sharing my wife with another man and getting to fuck his Missus was definitely something I felt comfortable with. So, what now?

2. Suzy – It’s such a relief to come clean.

I’ve always known that Marc is wilder in bed than me. He has fantasies about outdoor sex or role-playing but it’s nothing I thought I could do. I’d be terrified if someone saw us fucking in public and playing doctor-patient or firefighter-damsel-in-distress would make me laugh uncontrollably. So, I did my best to be a real slut in the bedroom and hope that it was enough to keep him happy.

One day, I was talking with one of my girlfriends (who’s the wildest woman I know) and she mentioned casually that she tried swinging and it was oh-my-god-so-fucking-awesome great. I got really curious and kept on asking and asking her to tell me everything about it. Then, it dawned on me – damn it, swinging sounded something which I want to do. The only problem was that I’ve never sensed even a hint from Marc that he would be willing to share me with someone else. Did I finally have a fetish which could never happen?

Over the next few months, I kept on thinking more and more about swinging, read lots of sites and forums, watched homemade videos from orgies, etc. My fantasy was growing bigger and bigger and I was already unsure what to do.

Marc already told you about that night and that movie, so I’ll skip this part.

Over the next few days, we didn’t talk about it and then I addressed the elephant in the room. It was such a relief to see that my husband didn’t think anything bad of me and that he actually thought that it was worth trying! But there was a long and rocky road ahead…

3. Marc – It’s no problem finding another couple (but it’s tedious).

Suzy didn’t want to get help from her slutty girlfriend for some reason. OK, I thought, I guess she doesn’t want anyone to know what we’re about to do. So, we decided to go the old-fashion way – type google.com in the browser and do a couple of searches.

There are tons of swinging forums and communities available. We read and read and read and after graduating in Swinging 101, we took a deep breath and dived right in – i.e. got accounts on KiK and a few forums.

It’s now the time to say that Suzy is a really beautiful woman who looks very sexy and slutty (when she wants to). I’m not Apollo but keep myself in good shape. We took a couple of nude selfies, uploaded them, and started waiting. We were honestly shocked at how quick the emails, messages, and PMs started coming in. We had over 50 replies in the first couple of hours and by the morning – more than 200.

We didn’t know what to do. It was obvious that we want our first swinger experience to be with people who we find sexually-attractive and harmless (as long as we could judge them online).

I let Suzy go through all messages at first and straight out delete the ones she didn’t like – fat, old, plain ugly, or creepy. Then, I did the same.

We ended up with 10 possible couples. Still, not bad at all.

Long story short, we really clicked with a man and a woman roughly our age, who looked good, were intelligent and polite, and had experience in swinging. The only problem was that they lived in another part of the country. What the hell – we thought – we’re overdue for some vacation and if we could also do some swinging, it would be the best trip ever. But…

4. Suzy – You can’t really fight the anxiety.

It’s very normal that we were really nervous – and our anxiety manifested in the funniest ways possible. I would zoom out of what I was doing all the time and just think about that sacred weekend. Marc would regularly get that grin on his face and start acting all playful and stupid. The closer we got to the flight date, the more OMG thoughts would cross my mind. OMG, what if there’s no chemistry and nothing happens? OMG, what if I embarrass myself when my shyness kicks in? OMG, what if it’s cult and they murder us? See – OMG all the way.

So, on the morning of the flight, I took a few shots of vodka, commanded myself to think happy thoughts and we were off to the airport.

Marc wouldn’t stop blabbering in the airplane and he only does that when’s really fucking nervous. Thanks God, it would be over soon – the anxiety was totally killing us.

Soon, they picked us up and we were travelling in their Range Rover to the house and I thought to myself – that’s it, Suzy, there’s no going back now. And, suddenly, the anxiety stopped. For the first time, I could honestly say that I was really looking forward to this. And then…

5. Suzy – It’s great if you do it with the right people.

Later, when all of this was over, we would keep on talking about that night and would instantly agree on something very important – when you’re getting cherry popped, you’d be better do it with the right people. We would forever be thankful to Macy and Johan for making us feel wanted, appreciated, and sexy. But, let’s not digress.

The other couple had a beautiful house and it was obvious that they were rich – but not in the in-your-face or arrogant way. They were really charming, had great stories to share, and for dinner we had the best sushi ever. We could feel the sexual tension growing bigger and bigger – there were sexy looks, naughty jokes, the accidental touch. After dinner, we moved on to the sofa and put something on Netflix. We were slowly drinking wine and just casually watching the movie. Then, something happened. Or, better said – swinging happened.

Neither of us could remember who started it first. Suddenly, clothes were on the floor, I had Johan’s head between my legs and Macy was deepthroating Marc’s cock. The touch of another man was weird to me but soon I felt really really horny and excited. Johan started fucking me and I had a great view to the other side of the sofa where Macy was riding my husband.

I don’t know how long the first session lasted but I came twice and took care of Johan two times as well. I watched Macy drop down on her knees and receive a big facial from Marc – and I thought it was over.

Was I wrong or what.

Me and hubby went to take a shower together and the other couple remained on the sofa. We bathed in complete silence – I guess we were too shocked and exhausted to mutter even a single word. Then we went back to the living room where, unknown to us, Phase Two of the swinger evening has just started.

Macy has lighted some candles and Johan has opened another bottle of wine. Then, he came to us and started kissing me while gently directing Marc behind me. I knew where this was going – I was about to have my first threesome. Hubby bent me over and entered me slowly while Johan slided his cock in my mouth. They tag teamed me for a while, harder and harder and I came again. And then again. Four times in a single night – this has never happened to me before.

Naturally, the guys were true gentlemen and wouldn’t leave Macy all by herself – so, soon they moved on her. I was watching the little minx whine and moan while getting fucked by 2 cocks and then she came really hard and squirted all over the sofa.

Finally, we were all exhausted and tired. So, we spent the rest of the night cuddling in the big bed, caressing each other, and finally falling asleep.

The next morning, we woke up before our hosts did and left for the airport.

To sum it up – our first swinging experience (more like wife-swap, to be precise) was hot, sexy, and rewarding. We are active swingers now and have had lots of sex with other people but we’ll never forget about Macy and Johan – we never met again but we still keep in touch.

If you are curious about the swinging lifestyle – be brave and experiment. Be cautious and careful who you deal with. Read information online and don’t be afraid to ask questions.

Oh, and submit your swinger sex pics to WifeBucket for a free membership 😉 There, we said it 😉